This is your path
to an extraordinary marriage:
Welcome to Legacy Love
Tailored premarital Counseling for Couples Committed to an Exceptional Union
Legacy Love offers customized premarital counseling designed for exceptional couples committed to prioritizing the quality and longevity of
their marriage.
Our personalized approach ensures you uncover the keys to creating a strong foundation that stands the test of time. Join us on this transformative journey toward a marriage that exceeds expectations.
who's it for?
Our program caters to couples who prioritize marriage quality and understand that different marital aspirations require tailored preparation. It's perfect for you if:
- You and your partner are driven achievers or aspire to be.
- You want to lay the foundation for an Exceptional marriage.
- You envision a future with children, managing businesses, and flourishing careers.
- You have a vision for your family and aspire to leave a meaningful legacy, both personally and/or publicly.
- You are committed to investing in preparing for your ideal marriage outcome.
what we offer
12 Customized Sessions
Experience personalized one-on-one counseling sessions tailored to your unique needs and aspirations. Elements of the course include education, exploration, and training in the following areas:
Tailored Assessments:
Begin with in-depth individual and couples' assessments to establish a baseline and identify areas for growth.
Shared Vision:
Work together to determine the core values and mission of your marriage and family.
Interpersonal Skills Training:
Learn the soft skills needed to create a healthy and harmonious home life, daily.
Healthy Communication Techniques:
Discover ways to engage with each other that are understood, received well, and improve the quality of the relationship.
Conflict Resolution Methods:
Explore cutting edge insights for understanding and working through conflict fruitfully, and how to apply those learnings in the heat of the moment.
Intimate Understanding:
Uncover how intimacy evolves over the course of a marriage so that you can prioritize and find pleasure in this important aspect of your marital life for years to come.
Operational Protocol:
Set up the routines, habits, and systems that are needed to manage and sustain a high-functioning marriage that has many moving parts.
Safety Planning:
Create a plan for the challenges that often arise during marriage and family life so that you can face any emergency that may arise with confidence.
what you'll gain
Knowledge of the strengths and weaknesses
of your relationship (and how to improve them before walking down the aisle).
an understanding
of the different aspects of a healthy marriage.
Insight
into how a high-functioning marriage feels and operates daily.
Specific skills
that you need to develop both individually and as a couple to increase your chances for lasting love.
Confidence
in your ability to have difficult conversations and work though challenges together.
The ability to break generational patterns
of marital and family dysfunction and leave a legacy of health and love for your children and future generations.
When combined, these elements help to establish a strong foundation for a healthy and enduring relationship.
request a free 15-minute consultation to
find out if legacy love is a good fit for you.
Our Process:
Now:
Clink the link below to request a free 15-minute consultation to find out more about Legacy Love and how it can help you meet your unique marriage goals. Once accepted in the program, you will receive access to 3(!) assessments to uncover the quality and potential of your relationship.
Sessions 1–2:
Experience a 90-minute deep dive into you and your partner’s personal histories (no secrets here!) and learn how they can impact the quality of your marriage. Knowledge and understanding are the first steps toward creating healthy change.
A) Compassionate exploration of each other’s past and current life experiences.
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B) Safe environment to explore questions about each other’s pasts and how they might affect the marriage.
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C) Understand how you both cope with difficult moments and your goals for the relationship moving forward.
Sessions 3–5:
During these two sessions, we will begin the process of discussing the results of your assessments, while you work toward co-creating the marriage of your dreams.
A) Begin psycho-education process on research-based aspects of a healthy and lasting marriage.
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B) Develop your unique marriage vision & crest (documents that you can frame and display in your home as a reminder of your commitment!)
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C) Learn some of the habits and practices that lead to a harmonious marriage experience daily.
Sessions 6–12:
A comprehensive exploration of the current quality of your relationship and what steps need to be taken to bridge the gap between your current relationship and the high-quality marriage you envision.
Topics we will explore include:
And much more...
At the end...
At the end of the Legacy Love Premarital Counseling Program,
you will also receive a customized report template that provides a summary of key points from our work together and the next steps that you can take on your journey to a healthy and lasting marriage.
*please note, session content is an estimation. Some couples spend more/less time discussing different topics*
Our Process:
Now:
Clink the link below to request a free 15-minute consultation to find out more about Legacy Love and how it can help you meet your unique marriage goals. Once accepted in the program, you will receive access to 3(!) assessments to uncover the quality and potential of your relationship.
Sessions 1-2:
Experience a 90-minute deep dive into you and your partner’s personal histories (no secrets here!) and learn how they can impact the quality of your marriage. Knowledge and understanding are the first steps toward creating healthy change.
- Compassionate exploration of each other’s past and current life experiences.
- Safe environment to explore questions about each other’s pasts and how they might affect the marriage.
- Understand how you both cope with difficult moments and your goals for the relationship moving forward.
Sessions 3-5:
During these two sessions, we will begin the process of discussing the results of your assessments, while you work toward co-creating the marriage of your dreams.
- Begin psycho-education process on research-based aspects of a healthy and lasting marriage.
- Develop your unique marriage vision & crest (documents that you can frame and display in your home as a reminder of your commitment!)
- Learn some of the habits and practices that lead to a harmonious marriage experience daily.
Sessions 6 - 12:
A comprehensive exploration of the current quality of your relationship and what steps need to be taken to bridge the gap between your current relationship and the high-quality marriage you envision.
Topics we will explore include:
And much more...
At the end...
At the end of the Legacy Love Premarital Counseling Program,
you will also receive a customized report template that provides a summary of key points from our work together and the next steps that you can take on your journey to a healthy and lasting marriage.
*please note, session content is an estimation. Some couples spend more/less time discussing different topics*
Your Investment in Legacy Love
the initial
90-minute session
$400
each additional
60-minute session
$350
Equip yourself with the confidence, mindset, and skills necessary to turn your dream of a healthy, lasting marriage into a reality. Join Legacy Love today and embark on a journey toward a marriage that transcends expectations.
Request a free 15-minute consultation
Reach out for personalized assistance. I'm here to help you build the legacy of love you desire.
Professional
Bio
With over 17 years of clinical experience, Kongit is a licensed Marriage, Family and Couples therapist (CA-97773), conflict resolution expert, AASECT certified sex therapist, trauma therapist, and mediator. She is an adjunct professor of Psychology at Pepperdine University and a clinical supervisor for associate marriage and family therapists, counselors, and social workers.
Kongit founded the Center for Healthy Marriage in 2010 and holds degrees from the University of Southern California (Communication), Pepperdine University (Clinical Psychology), and Conflict Resolution (Columbia University). She has received advanced training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy from The Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Couples Therapy from The Gottman Institute, Sexuality from the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, and The Buehler Institute in Orange County.
She is passionate about helping couples build and maintain healthy marriages and family lives.
