This is your path
to an extraordinary marriage:

Welcome to Legacy Love

Tailored premarital Counseling for Couples Committed to an Exceptional Union


Legacy Love offers customized premarital counseling designed for exceptional couples committed to prioritizing the quality and longevity of

their marriage.

Our personalized approach ensures you uncover the keys to creating a strong foundation that stands the test of time. Join us on this transformative journey toward a marriage that exceeds expectations.


who's it for?


Our program caters to couples who prioritize marriage quality and understand that different marital aspirations require tailored preparation. It's perfect for you if:

  • You and your partner are driven achievers or aspire to be.
  • You want to lay the foundation for an Exceptional marriage.
  • You envision a future with children, managing businesses, and flourishing careers.
  • You have a vision for your family and aspire to leave a meaningful legacy, both personally and/or publicly.
  • You are committed to investing in preparing for your ideal marriage outcome.

what we offer

  • 12 Customized Sessions

    Experience personalized one-on-one counseling sessions tailored to your unique needs and aspirations. Elements of the course include education, exploration, and training in the following areas:

  • Tailored Assessments:

    Begin with in-depth individual and couples' assessments to establish a baseline and identify areas for growth.

  • Shared Vision:

    Work together to determine the core values and mission of your marriage and family.

  • Interpersonal Skills Training:

    Learn the soft skills needed to create a healthy and harmonious home life, daily.

  • Healthy Communication Techniques:

    Discover ways to engage with each other that are understood, received well, and improve the quality of the relationship.

  • Conflict Resolution Methods:

    Explore cutting edge insights for understanding and working through conflict fruitfully, and how to apply those learnings in the heat of the moment.

  • Intimate Understanding:

    Uncover how intimacy evolves over the course of a marriage so that you can prioritize and find pleasure in this important aspect of your marital life for years to come.

  • Operational Protocol:

    Set up the routines, habits, and systems that are needed to manage and sustain a high-functioning marriage that has many moving parts.

  • Safety Planning:

    Create a plan for the challenges that often arise during marriage and family life so that you can face any emergency that may arise with confidence.

what you'll gain

  • Knowledge of the strengths and weaknesses

    of your relationship (and how to improve them before walking down the aisle).

  • an understanding

    of the different aspects of a healthy marriage.

  • Insight

    into how a high-functioning marriage feels and operates daily.

  • Specific skills

    that you need to develop both individually and as a couple to increase your chances for lasting love.

  • Confidence

    in your ability to have difficult conversations and work though challenges together.

  • The ability to break generational patterns

    of marital and family dysfunction and leave a legacy of health and love for your children and future generations.

When combined, these elements help to establish a strong foundation for a healthy and enduring relationship.

request a free 15-minute consultation to
find out if legacy love is a good fit for you.


Your Investment in Legacy Love


the initial
90-minute session


each additional
60-minute session


Equip yourself with the confidence, mindset, and skills necessary to turn your dream of a healthy, lasting marriage into a reality. Join Legacy Love today and embark on a journey toward a marriage that transcends expectations.

Request a free 15-minute consultation

Reach out for personalized assistance. I'm here to help you build the legacy of love you desire.




With over 17 years of clinical experience, Kongit is a licensed Marriage, Family and Couples therapist (CA-97773), conflict resolution expert, AASECT certified sex therapist, trauma therapist, and mediator. She is an adjunct professor of Psychology at Pepperdine University and a clinical supervisor for associate marriage and family therapists, counselors, and social workers.

Kongit founded the Center for Healthy Marriage in 2010 and holds degrees from the University of Southern California (Communication), Pepperdine University (Clinical Psychology), and Conflict Resolution (Columbia University). She has received advanced training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy from The Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Couples Therapy from The Gottman Institute, Sexuality from the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, and The Buehler Institute in Orange County.

She is passionate about helping couples build and maintain healthy marriages and family lives.

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