My name is Sherrie Sims Allen and I am co-owner of The Allen Group. My title is Relationship Alchemist because I am aware of what it takes to transform relationships and oneself. Kongit Farrell’s remarkable ability to educate modern women on the wisdom of courtship is brilliant! She methodically breaks down the importance of why women should hold off on putting physical intimacy before emotional and mental intimacy has been established in romantic relationships.

Before Kongit spoke to my women’s group, the women were still having preemptive sex with their potential mates thinking that this behavior would ensure a marriage proposal, but since her lecture, the women have done a complete 360 turn and are valuing the importance of courtship and gain the commitment. In two months after she spoke to our group, at least one of the women in the group is now engaged and is getting married, shortly!

Thank you Kongit Farrell for your brilliant knowledge of modernizing what our grandmothers have been saying for centuries…why buy the cow if you get the milk free. Enough said!

Sherrie Sims Allen, The Allen Group

She’s Worth The Chase!

Once the book arrived I immediately started reading it….hilariously TRUE HEHEHEHEHE. Except for the expletives you use Kongit, your book is right on and it is something these young women of the 21st century need. Someone to shake their lack of morals and get this baby daddy/momma drama off the record. WHEW!
What I suggest, everyone get this book and purchase at least 2 or 3 I know you know someone who needs helpppppppp! don’t forget the boys your know too. Know someone who has everything but doesn’t know how to get a man who is worth it???? give her this book, as a gift that keeps on giving.

RonE, BUCKEYE, AZ

Very true and helpful for the ladies

Kongit is knowledgeable on the subject and fun with her communication style. Her background and continued education makes her well researched in this space and a pleasure to read.

A thin book and quick read, she lays out a wonderful explanation for how we have gotten off course and act out of accordance to our biological nature – failing at a game by ignoring the rules. I am working on a couple’s guidebook in a similar vein and found her examples very insightful and well thought out.